Posted by John Hodgkin on May 14, 2001 at 07:53:09:
Learning the art of listening is extremely important in
fostering meaningful interpersonal relationships. So too
is learning the art of listening to yourself.
How often, when times are trying or difficult, are you
left running around in circles, wondering what to do next?
In those times, you need to stop and listen to your own
intuition, for the answers always lie within yourself.
You are a unique individual and only you truly know what
is best for you. What is best for others may not be right
for you. It is your intuition, that inner voice that
guides you, that gives you hunches that are right for you
as an individual. Sadly, while you are tense, stressed
and busy worrying about problems, you forget to listen to
your inner being and may make decisions that are not in
your own personal best interests.
So how do you develop the art of listening to your
intuition?
Firstly you must learn to relax your mind and body. When
you do this you will feel calmer and more centered, which
will allow you to become more aware what your intuition
is telling you.
Ask yourself questions such as, "What would be the
best action I could do next." Your personal
intuition is always compassionate to yourself and you can
trust it to give the answer that is right for you.
Sometimes the answer may be to do nothing, to seek more
information or take a specific course of action. Whatever
the answer, rely on your intuition and seek it's advice
often.
Learn to calm down, listen and form a partnership that
will never let you down.
Remember, it is your personal intuition which knows what
is right for you as an individual. Like you, others have
their own intuitions and are their own individuals. Take
care in using your intuition about what others should do.